I left my SO (now ex) of 4 years this past Sunday. 2 kids (3yo boy & 1yo girl). He’s 30, I’m 24. We’ve never had an actual relationship. He’s physically, verbally, emotionally, & mentally abusive.. When I started packing our things, he started telling me how I was nothing & I’d never be anything. I’m trash, my family is trash, etc. He even went as far as telling my son to call me trash. I’m ugly, a piece of shit, a bitch, anything you can think of. He kept jamming his forehead into my temple while I was sitting on the couch, all while our son is watching. Before we left, he said he was done with the kids, too. I’d be a single mom. Sooo, tonight he ends up texting me about something random & then proceeds to say he wants to ask his mom if she wants to go to Disney World Saturday-Monday & wanted to know if he could take our son. Not both of our kids.. JUST OUR SON. AND, ANDDD THEN they are all mine. (As in, no more daddy).

My response was: Don’t think that’s how it works. You don’t get to pick and choose. So you’re either done now or not at all. He said Nvm ... seriously?! I just sent an 👌🏻. Never in my life 🤦🏻‍♀️ my son LOVES his dad. I hate that it’s gotten to this point, but I will not allow him to go through what his father & I went through with our dad’s not being present in our lives.