So my mom and I don’t have the best relationship. Just two very different. We’re good people generally but don’t mesh well.

Most times it’s because I think it’s her fault/ how we were raised and disciplined us. Old school mentality yet I’m a first gen “American”-

The gist of what’s on my mind is: my mom is getting married tomorrow and I don’t approve. she’ll do it regardless of how vocal I’ve been; I know I should go to city hall with her to just be there as a good daughter but I just think its all a joke/bad decision.

Lowkey judging her even tho I shouldn’t. I should mature enough and not look down on her.

I feel like it’s a poor choice in general and poor choice in partner too.

Tangent of topic, I think I’ve picked men of low caliber (I say that humbly) because what I’ve seen of men in my life, my father is amazing to his kids but he’s done some things I would never ever want in a man.

Back on topic: do I go to city hall with her to witness even tho I don’t support? I feel it’s very fake to show face when you don’t approve - it’s an integrity thing.

Anywho, I’d like commentary to chat about it cuz I’m in my head tonight.