So basically I found photos of girls that we hang out with, that we are both friends with, on his phone. He screenshots Instagram/Facebook photos. Usually of them in bikinis. Am I “being dramatic”? Or should I be upset. I’m not the type of wife to get upset at porn mind you, it’s just because we actually know them and are friends with them. I’m going to show him the answers lol.

So basically this is the last thing I sent out. The reason him and I are texting a lot is because we are with his siblings on leave, they are very young, and we don’t really have a chance to get away from them. I blocked out all the girls names. I also said we can be neutral and shit because strait up divorce wouldn’t be too easy right now. We are both in the military, currently en route to another duty station. So once we arrive there, I will deal with all of this then. Thank you all so much! He said sorry a bunch and deleted all the pictures, not that it matters to me. But I made him delete it for the sake of the girls.

I also see some people confused about why I was telling him to continue talking to other girls. I was basically saying that I’m done with him, and don’t care what he does or who he talks to. But for the sake of the girls he took screenshots of, I wanted him to delete them. If girls want to be nasty and talk to a married man, and if he wants to entertain them, then they can have him! Because I’m done lol