Married at 20! Too young??

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Does anyone think 20 is too young for marriage? 
    I am 20 years young and just got married on May 21st! I’m NOT pregnant. And he is NOT in the military. There wasn’t any reason why we NEEDED to get married. We just felt it was the right time and we wanted to start out lives together, young. 
 
Years ago I never thought it would be possible to have a houses and cars at 20. I almost gave up on relationships completely cause I never thought I’d find what I wanted. Or if have to wait till my 30s to get married. 
We believe if you’re young and in love you shouldn’t have to wait to start your lives just cause society tells you to. I’m posting here cause I’m SOOO excited and happy still, but everyone we tell immediately thinks I’m pregnant. Did anyone else get married under 25 and experience this?

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no, tell people who think it is to mind their own business

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I got married at 21 now I’m 25 and divorced he was 10 years older.... I felt so in love but I started to grow year went by and a lot of shit he did I started realizing it wasn’t out of love it was abuse and controlling I had to realize me loving him was convenient for me and I became depressed and unhappy with myself and life I had to let it go and when he put his hands on me it sealed it so I believe it’s young but your grown enough to make your own decisions it’s a learning experience for me

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Yes, a lot of people questioned if I was pregnant. We got married in less than a year of being together.. I am 24 and he is 29. We just loved each other so much and knew we wanted to spend our lives together. I was in a relationship for 7 years before I was with him, so I felt from experience I could recognize in what I wanted and did not want in a man. (And especially knew how I should be treated) Don’t question yourself! Every person’s path in life is different and I would do whatever makes you happy!

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Good for you! I wanna get married at a young age too

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I got married a month before my 19th birthday (he was already 19) and I’ll be celebrating my 20th birthday on the 29th. We’ve been married a year and so far it’s incredible. 
A lot of people assumed I was pregnant but that was far from the truth. We were just in love. It’s hard for people to accept that young people CAN BE GENUINELY IN LOVE! We weren’t rich, moved 5 hours away (living alone and faaar for the first time) and are in college. He’s a Biology major last year before med school and I’ll be right behind him in 2 years. We struggled with money, bills, car issues, and little problems here and there. But we pray, we laugh, and we know that we will have been together 10 years by the time we have kids, saw each other grow into our careers, and kept our faith through hard time for the good times. It’s worth it.
It’s hard sometimes, especially when you first get married but it’s not anything you can’t handle. Good luck!

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My husband and I got married a few days after graduating high school and we were both 18. We will be celebrating 3 years of marriage at the end of this year and 4 years if being together at the beginning of next year. We got a lot of looks and such, but who cares. We're in love and that's all that matters. We got engaged when we were only together for about 6 months and got married less than a year after we started dating. My husband is Mexican and I'm Caucasian, so we get a lot of looks for that too. And people gave us a ton of looks when I was pregnant and still do when we're out in public with our daughter. It never ends, but it's worth it. Don't let it get to you. Oh, and I wasn't pregnant when we got pregnant and he's not military. We got married because we love each other and couldn't wait to start our lives together. There's nothing wrong with that! :)

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he'll no. I'm married at 19. if the time is right its right. love is love. people will comment and be snide but just ignore them. youre happy. thays all that matters

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I think if you are happy and no ones families are tearing you down then enjoy it. Be happy.

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Yes

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I got married a month after I turned 18. Yes he was joining the military but that’s not why we got married. No I wasn’t pregnant and everyone always asks that. I didn’t care what people thought. We’ve been married for 5 years now and we have a 2 year old. We both work full time and own a house.

Married at 20! Too young??

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