Reality of nuvaring

So... I need some help, I've been on an IUD AND my luck it kept coming out so we tried again just in case how it was positioned wasn't right. No my body is anti IUD came out again but this time it was stuck so next option nuva ring cause there was so way I would remember to take the pill everyday with my chaotic life, so question for my ladies out there do I really have to wait the seven days for it to be effective? ..... I'm very spontaneous well try to be and try to be in the moment but I don't want in the moment to lead to shopping for baby clothes and to be real here putting the IUD in hurt like a truck so not mentally prepared to have a head come out of there