Hey guys I just need your input on something and if I’m wrong please do tell me. I went away for the weekend to Atlantic City and left my son at grandparents house.

I’m a mother to a one year old.

I have 6 brothers and 4 sisters. Out of all of us I was the first to get married and have my son.

Me and my husband had the worst argument ever because of This situation to where family is taking it upon themselves to make decisions for us without telling us. We as parents don’t like that! This is our child and when we say something all we want is for them to follow it that’s it.

Now here is the thing recently my son had surgery on his ears were he got tubes in because he had to much Fluid in his ears, I was told by his doctor that he can’t be in water. Only when I take him a bath I have to put cotton balls in his ears. That’s it and then take him out.

Now listen to me carefully I hate the fact when I say something to someone or family and they take it the other way around when all I am asking before they do anything with my son especially when it comes to taking him into a pool to call me and asked if it is okay for my son to go into the pool..

I’m a call away why is it so hard for them to understand? Am I wrong? I’m not being a bad parent am I?