Pcos and TTC #1

Is it just me or do you hate when people say stop trying and it will just happen. But how am I just supposed to stop worrying and not think about it when I have to get blood work and ultrasounds up to three times a week. Every week. Take all these meds to help me ovulate...check my temps every morning. Do OPKs everyday after my period to see if meds are working. How am I supposed to just let it happen??? I hate when people tell me that. I do not know what else to do anymore. Sorry I just had to vent. Anyone else with me???