What do I do


My boyfriend has a best friend who does like me. For the longest he lied to me an wouldn’t tell me why. His best friend doesn’t like me because I have a child by another guy an that I didn’t speak to him. When I first met him I spoke but it’s like his friend just find reasons not to like me. But what ever his best friend tells him he believes it an my bf said he’s not liked any girls he’s been with. My bf won’t talk to me if he’s talking to his bf because if his best friend hears my voice he will hang up an not talk to my bf till the next day. I don’t understand an my bf just says he can’t balance the two. What do I do