Hello hair help

Hi I am new to this group I am trying to do something different with my hair I love the length but I am sick of just putting it in a ponytails make it fall out more lol I have a few strands shorter here and there I dislike bangs my hair grows out fast I have thick hair so yeah mostly everyone says my hair looks good down makes me look my age I don’t use my iron curler because I have no idea how to use it, I just need a amazing style that I can do myself without spending a dime if you know what I mean plus I don’t know how to do my eyebrows as you noticed too lol I am 33 years old trying to look like a hot mom I am single, need a lady friend who understands right now my goal is to gain weight and do something with my hair no I am not cutting it I don’t like it short sorry no more short

hair for me...

Had it short in 2016 so ladies a little help here please and thank you 🙏