I generally really enjoy being submissive and having rough sex, especially spanking, hair pulling, being pinned down. However, in the beginning of our relationship, I had a much higher sex drive than my boyfriend and often initiated sex or seduced him.

Now, after almost 6 months together, we frequently take turns being more submissive in the bedroom and its truly phenomenal 😍😍

For instance, one day he texted me out of the blue that he was on his way over and to be waiting for him in a cute thong and have the lube ready. He bent me over his lap and spanked and teased me and fingered my asshole for a good 45 minutes and it was the hottest shit ever tbh.

Then recently, we were REALLY drunk and away on a trip, and he went full submissive, more than ever before. We both love each others butts and are totally into anal play ((fingering, ass eating, and spanking, both ways)) so that was nothing new. But he went full out face down, ass up on the bed and practically begged me to eat his ass, moaning and squirming the whole time. I was a bit taken aback at first to see him so submissive, but I really loved it!! It felt so powerful and vulnerable all at the same time to dominate him like that.

Basically, Im just wondering if anyone else is like us and enjoys switching off that way lol, where each partner is capable of being equally dominant or submissive in different scenarios. Just curious!