Trying my freakin hardest to conceive😭

24 years old with a 3year old daughter. She wasn’t planned but is definitely a blessing!! This time around, we’re actually ‘trying’. I never thought much about my ‘irregular’ cycles and come to think about it, I have never had a NOMAL cycle. But the more I discuss with my friends/family, they tell me that I need to see a doctor about it. Starting to stress/worry me. We got pregnant about a year ago but lost the baby a few weeks later. And have been trying ever since. I’m a very private person so I’m kinda embarrassed to talk to anyone about how our repeated attempts have failed us. I think I’m going to give it a few more months and see what happens before I make it a big deal. Any input ladies??