I'm so damn confused

So my boyfriends family and friends will ask when are we getting married and we've only been together for 8 months, and he'll say it's up to me but I'm like nope up to him. And he's said before he won't propose until we live on our own but he's talking about it for the next couple months finding our own place and then my parents are calling him son in law. And saying that they can't wait to welcome him to the family. It's freaking me out a little bit