For starters we have been together for eight years...two of those we have been married and six of those we dates long distance. Our sex life has never been extremely good but I thought it's because it was long distance. Now that we are married we have sex once a month if I'm lucky and it's always me initiating. I have to beg him to do anything with me.so I became suspicious and started searching the house and found old home videos titled Bob 8 inches and swinger party my first time. There were fifteen other unlabeled tapes. He was hiding them. I haven't confronted him or even watched them yet but I don't know how much more blunt you can get with a title like Bob eight inches . Do you think he's gay and not telling me