I want to share something that has been bothering me so much. I need opinions and advice.

Let me start by saying. I have a 16 month old and he’s my world, sadly his dad is not with us in this world. So it has been me since the day I was pregnant basically.

Moving forward.

Ive had this friend she’s like family because our parents have known each other since we were in first grade. Her mom was my nana for many years and I’ve always seen them like family, we were also next door neighbors until middle school that she moved 3 hours away. Me and her were always close, we had a great relationship/bond. We would tell each other everything.

2016 I got pregnant and she was very happy for me, right away asked me if she could be my sons god mother. Of course I said yes. I’ve always cared about her and loved her. After I had my son she changed a lot. Suddenly she got moved up positions in her work (phone company) she manages like 8 stores, she’s gf of one of the bosses brothers, she bought her own car, and now 2018 she’s on the hunt to buy her own house. She’s in her late 20’s. And I noticed ever since all that a tremendous change, like money and her position got to her head. She is selfish with herself though. She doesn’t waste money to go out at all, she doesnt ever travel or have fun, she doesn’t do anything good for herself either.

It’s been a whole year and I noticed she doesn’t talk to me when I go to her house since then, she doesn’t ever care to ask for my son or how he is, when I go to her house she doesn’t play with my son and I notice she uses me for things from time to time.

One time I asked her if she could hire me but said no. People told me she’s always envied me because I’m good looking and very outgoing. I was so blind and never believed all this.

My lifestyle. I don’t have a bf/husband or a job but because of my inheritance (not from sons dad) I have money, I’m not rich. But I get to travel a lot and take my son to new places so he can have fun and we both have memories. I’m always out eating. Having fun with my son because I don’t ever leave him with anyone. I think I’m a great mom. I help others out like my parents and whoever needs it.

In the weekend I went over to her house like every 2-3 weeks because my father is temporarily living with her parents and her in her parents house.

For my surprise she finally showed her true colors....

Me and my son usually sleep in her bed, sometimes she’s stay with us or sometimes she doesn’t...

So it’s Saturday night and she knows I’m exhausted. I have a every night routine with my son, we shower together by 9 and go to sleep. Well that night she had hours to shower and her spoiled dog that breaks all my sons little toys I take him and rips my sons shoes (she never replaces or says sorry.) Well it was 9pm and I was ready to get to the bathroom with my son in my arms and our towels, she rushes in front of me and I tell her I’m going to shower and she goes like “I’m going to bath my dog first with attitude!” So its 10:15pm and my son is crying falling asleep dirty from playing all day. And I’m falling as sleep myself. She finally gets out and when I come in the room she has all lights on, her computer for work, her cellphone and her dog on top of my sons blanket.

I try to ignore it and get in bed with my baby but it’s horrible. My son is crying and crying in desperation because he can’t sleep with her computer light and her dog making noise in the bed next to him.

It’s 11pm by this point and I can’t take it I’m upset and I tell her if she can work in her living room like she usually does.

She tells me “why don’t you go to the living room” while my poor baby is still crying and screaming because he just wants to sleep.

Moving forward ... it’s almost 12am and my son finally gives up and she’s still up with the lights..

She turns off her computer by 12:30am finally and I think to myself oh great she finally will go to sleep but NOOO she’s on her phone and by 1ish am she decides she’s sleeping..

I noticed she was purposely on top of one of my sons hands and I tell her to move her body more to the side....

That night i realized a lot of things and I was crying realizing she’s been fake for so long ...

The next day i tell my dad about it and he says ”I saw this coming in glad you finally open your eyes on your own” and he says don let anyone be my grand baby’s god mother unless they’re something like you....

Do you guys think my dad is right?

She shouldn’t be my baby’s god mother?

Do you think what she did was wrong?