I haven't been on BC in 8 years and never so much as a scare, figured another child wasn't in the cards and I went on with life. in December I found myself pregnant. after the initial shock we were over the moon happy but two days later it ended in a chemical. so far we haven't been successful in TTC again. I'm 37 and I feel like my time is running out. my ob just dismisses the fact that I want another baby. I've just ordered preseed, conception vitamins and fertilaid for my bf. anyone have success on these?