First MFM appointment?? 22 weeks

Hi ladies!

At our 20 week scan there were two abnormalities found along with baby measuring under 10 percentile. We were referred to MFM and have our first appointment Tuesday! It’s hard for my husband to get off work so I’m just wondering what your experience has been with MFM appointments in general? We’re supposed to have a regular OB appointment right after (so he can be at both) but the more I’m reading, it seems we would be cutting it extremely close.

MFM is 8:45 AM and OB is 11:15. There’s no way, right? Of course I’d love him to be at both but, I’d rather have the support at MFM if I have to choose. I can always move the OB to a different day if absolutely necessary.

Thoughts? ALSO, ladies that were referred after abnormalities on your 20 week scan, what was this first MFM appointment like? We are doing another ultrasound of course and meeting with a generic counselor. What should we expect?