So I need some advice on how to handle close family matter/problem/situation, whatever you want to call it.

Basically I just came home from my first year away at college, first year not being under my parents roof. So of course I’ve changed and grown as a person right? Like it’s totally normal when your trying to figure out how to pay bills and keep blog looking grades with no parents right there to look over the little things. Like I just got my first credit card a week before I moved away and shit I was not ready for it. Never had a debit card before so I was used to cash (long story short I was so underprepared).

Okay so back to the real situation... I come home and I was told there would be new rules (which I haven’t gotten), new chores (thank god for not doing dishes anymore), and that I needed to stay busy this summer. So I’m volunteering at the library, got a part time job, clean 3/4 of the house, and do small jobs for my neighbors whenever I can for extra cash. So why do I feel like it’s not enough? Like my dad will see me sitting on the couch on my day off from everything and ask me why I didn’t do anything today.. can anyone explain why he doesn’t understand that I need a day off? I’ve been told he doesn’t like the “new” me that came back from college... I’m not sure if me being independent is bad or if I’m just not his little, straight A, baby girl who never knew anything but school, sports, and homework for 16 years...

Is something wrong with me? I feel like it’s my fault that I’ve changed and that the new me is a horrible person... I just don’t know what else to do because talking with him isn’t working well...

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