So I'm naturally an anxious person. my mom is throwing my baby shower, and I'm really excited. she said it can't be before 8 months, so I picked October 13. anyway, my mom won't talk about it nor start plannin anything. I know it's 4 months away, but is it too soon to talk about and start planning? I don't know where she's having it, nor who is invited, she won't even talk about setting a date. am I overreacting? Should I just calm down? or is it smart to plan 4 months head, cuz invites still need to be sent out at least a month in advance