Questions for MFM?

Ka

Hi ladies! FTM here. At our 20 week scan we found out our little girl is only in the 8 percentile for size, has a small amount of fluid on the brain, and a small hole in her heart. We were referred to MFM and will have another ultrasound and meet with a genetic counselor on Tuesday at 22 weeks. Are there any experienced Mommas out there that could help me with what questions I'll want to ask at this appointment or things to look for? Hubby and I have a little notebook we've been jotting down questions in the last two weeks but, we have no idea what to expect. 😓