So this is kinda long and confusing but bear with me. I'm pregnant by my ex boyfriend as a few of you may know. Well, his father told him to shape up and is shipping him off to the military. Which means we have to settle our differences (which we were already in the process of doing) and get married. A few months ago, when I was bitter and angry, because he broke up with me, and his dad said that, I was very not ok with this. Then he changed his mind. So, we stopped hating each other. And then his dad changed his mind again (because reality wise, with is both in college, we'd be broke as fuck), and so now we have to get married again. OR child support. Ew, child support. Ugh, I really don't want to do that... What do you random strangers think would be the best option. I want her to be with her dad, I've no issue with an arranged marriage, but I don't want to force him into that. But I also don't want to go to court for child support because I don't want his money, and she'll never see her dad. Gah!!