Today, my boyfriend decided to not only tell me to “pack my sh*t and GTFO” but he proceeded to tell me that I’m not wanted here because all I do is ask for money and tell him bills are due. Why do I stay? Why do I put myself through this BS? 10 years.... 10 years with this crap and I’m over it. I’m over him holding a house above my head because I didn’t pay for it (his mom helped him pay for it), I’m tired of him holding my car above my head (only because it’s solely in his name)... I’m sick of it! NO ONE should ever have to live like this. He doesn’t want me to get a job because “I don’t need one”. No honey, you’re just so damn controlling you cant keep a finger on where I’m at or what I’m doing at all times. This is abuse. This is control. And this is BS. I don’t deserve this and neither does my child. I want out of this so bad! I’m 11 weeks pregnant and have a 6 year old, I’m a SAHM because every time I get a job he starts sh*t with the people I work with (jealousy is a real bit*h!) so tomorrow, I’m going while he’s at work and I’m getting a job. He will not know detail about it, I’ll save my money and pray I can get out before baby #2 is due in December. Life has got to be so much easier than this, right?