My fiancé and I are expecting our first baby in December and as of right now I make minimum wage while he makes really good money! In order to pay for child care I would only be bringing home $100 a week with the job I have now. I want to be a SAHM but he is not on board at all. I told him I’m more than willing to do daycare to at least bring in my share of the bills so it doesn’t all fall on him but now he’s mad and avoiding the subject 😩 I don’t want to send my child to daycare... it’s expensive and they are only little for so long I don’t want to miss out!! What do I do😭

Update: first off I want to say thank you everyone for the comments they were all very helpful❤️ and secondly him and I talked last night and I voiced my concerns and was very to the point with my wishes and he agreed and said it made more sense for me to stay home with the baby but that he was afraid his family would talk about me (he always cares what they think.. I could careless) and he was also afraid that I would not ever want to go back to work. I told him I want to be a mommy I don’t want to only be able to see my kids for dinner and bed time I want to go on hikes and to the park and adventure like my mom did with all of us. I don’t want someone else raising our baby! He agreed and said he was sorry for getting upset and not seeing it how I did the first time it was brought up! Cheers to this new adventure it’ll be crazy but so worth it💕🎉