Help!!! I have a 21 month old and a 1 month old and my 21 month old basically hates the baby. She loves every other baby she sees and is sooo sweet and helpful but not with her sister. She hits, kicks, throws things at her and asks me to put her outside. She gets mad when we bring the baby places with us and when people pay attention to her. I know she’s just seeking attention but it’s becoming worrisome and she does not listen at all. I have read and read and read about this, have my masters in early childhood and childhood education and a bachelors and psychology and still have no idea what to do with my kid!!!