Should I make him wait?

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What's the purpose of making a man wait for sex? Does this even do any good? For how long should I make him wait?

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Some men lose interest in a women who has sex with a them so soon, but it just depends on the man

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It could save you from being hurt/feeling used if he turns out to be an asshole.

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My current boyfriend and I waited 5 months. I wanted to make sure that’s not all it was about for either of us. I wanted to build a relationship first. We will be getting married soon. He also learned to respect me and knew never to force anything

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I don’t think it makes sense to play the “making him wait” thing for any other reason other than because you’re not ready.   You could make a man wait months and once he’s got what he wanted he’ll leave, you could give it up the first night and end up with a fairytale happy ending.  You should have sex based on when you want to have sex, not based on how you think he’s going to react or what impression it’ll give him

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I’m just saying my now husband was a man hoe when we met 😂 I didnt know this at the time and when we started talking/hanging out he would try to have sex and I always told him I would not do that until we started dating. Fast forward 3 years and now we are married and he is a completely different man. He actually told me he enjoyed me not just giving sex up because it was different then what he has gotten from previous girls. It made me stand out and him know I was serious and not just looking for a hookup.

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It shouldn’t be about “making him wait,” it should be about feeling completely comfortable... you wait until you’re ready.

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It’s up to u but some guys only want sex and once they get it they leave. Remember the old saying why buy the cow when u get the milk for free.

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I waited 3 months at the age of 32 to have sex with my now fiancé . It was important to know he wanted more then sex . He also later on told me he loved the fact I wasn’t easy and most men think that way ... trust me in the past I slept with men first dates or a few weeks later and none of them worked but ultimately it’s your choice . Just feel it out and see how it goes

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I waited for a long time before we did anything with my husband. He was annoyed but fought through and now we’re married with a baby :)

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I'm 17 i was a virgin I waited 6 months and had my first time January 1st 2018 with the man I lived and still love. we are still together and happy we love each other and that live grows more and more each day we are expecting our first child in October ( unexpected but a blessing none the less) and we will get married soon after I graduate. I never expected to have sex before I married but I love him and he loves me I want future with him and him I. were in love

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