how do you ladies stay confident?!

I had my baby 2.5 months ago and it always takes me a while to lose the baby weight. I have 20 lbs to lose to be at my pre pregnancy weight and I'm just trying to find confidence in my body in my way to losing weight. with my first I was no longer in a relationship when I had my baby so I didn't care about my weight. this time I'm struggling to feel good around my SO and trying not to hide my body. What helped you ladies find confidence when you didn't feel so great?!