*clever title to make you read my relationship problems*

I’ve posted and deleted topics like this so many times. Maybe because i don’t want to acknowledge the truth.

I don’t have romantic feelings towards my husband anymore. Sexual feelings are gone also. I still find him attractive and i still love him so much, but not in a romantic way. I’ve told him about it back in March, that i feel our spark is gone. Again April and May, because i feel like i wasn’t completely honest about what was making me feel this way. It’s a long story and a lot goes into it, but to keep it short; i wasn’t feeling appreciated or like he was listening to my wants and needs, he was making my feelings seem over dramatic and irrational. He’s working on it and doing an ok job, he helps more and he cares about my day. But i still just don’t feel romantic feelings with him. Sex is never on my mind, i could honestly go weeks before I’d feel the need to be intimate. And when we do have sex it’s just sex. It’s not a chore, but it’s not something I’m into anymore. I’m starting to feel annoyed by him.. I’m finding more and more excuses to be left alone, making him go out with his friends so i have the day to myself, taking extra long showers so i can be alone. I don’t know what to do. Has anyone been in this situation before??