so i’m 17 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. we do have sex not really anymore because i get Uti’s after no matter what i do. i do everything i can do to possibly prevent them. well i feel like i’m starting to develop one now even though it’s a few days after we have had sex. my mom said that me and him should promise to not do anything since the risk of me getting an infection again is high and it’s just not worth it. i said ok and i feel horrible... but here i am again. i don’t feel like it will ever be normal tbh. i don’t know how to bring it up to her and tell her she will most likely be mad at me. idk what will happen