is he hiding something?

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so guys a little back ground I've been with my man for 6 years and 2 months, lately for the past like yr in a half he hasn't posted squat about me like that on fb.... no cute picture's, just comments on my stuff i post about him, or us.... now about a year ago we broke up after one of our really good friends passed away, which was for the best but only for a wk or so and i stayed at one of  my girls house. ever since then I feel like he never post about me. now ik i might sound a bit petty but his response is i dont need to post about you.... or I'm never on fb.... yet he be active 3 mins ago... or i look over and he's scrolling thru His news feed.... like okay you are on fb just as much as I am granted he works from 8-5 most days. he works on cars. so it's about how much work he gets done in a day is how he's paid. he sees no rush in getting married, or having kid's.... he's24 im 22. I've been with him since i was 16 and he was 17 turning 18. I just don't get it.... we've been thru hell and back together. I got pregnant in 2014 and we decided it was best that we not keep it... we didn't want to raise a child in the horrible situation we were in no job no car , living with his mom and his brother who was HORRIBLE he was rude and would treat hia mother like shit and did drugs and drank 24/7  so yes i did what was best for my child.... and fast forward... 2017 in jan still same situation yet this time I was ready and he wasn't... we fought so bad during this time, turned out he was  talking a girl he worked with... for months.... after I found out about her I  was so selfish and made the same decision and went thru another abortion.... it tore me to pieces. i honestly lost myself during that time.... and we've joked abiut kids and getting married now that life is better for us. we're doing better and happy, no b.s both have jobs and a car and bills are always paid..... I just feel like maybe after everything he just doesn't want to be with me... yet i might just be struggling so damn much with depression and anxiety that its in my head. any negitive comments will be removed. nothing i went through was easy and doesn't need any negitive b.s from anyone.

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my husband is the same way when it comes to facebook he never posts anything unless it is for his business he is also a mechanic and doesnt really get on unless hea finally home for the day. I worried about it for awhile but as long as you know your guys are okay who cares if he puts you on Facebook. But I do tag him in our kids pictures a lot😂

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There is the possibility that it's all in your head.  I'm on Facebook all the time but rarely post anything.

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My fiancé and I don’t have anything about our relationship on social media. We don’t have Facebook but we both have Instagram. And basically there is a lot of drama and people that don’t want us together and neither of us want to deal with listening to it from people whom we never see.

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Tbh I would get mad at my boyfriend about it too and he explained to me , a post doesn’t mean a thing because at the end of the day I know how I feel about you, I show you how I feel about you, i care about you and i love you and you know that society is so focused on if he doesn’t post me he is cheating etc etc but in all reality a post shouldn’t determine how you see me or make me automatically a cheater . You guys have been together one year longer than we have and tbh I could give two shits now if he post me .... you grow out of stuff and that’s something that he did and I’m okay with it because he will make it known to anybody that he has a gf. Trust your man and don’t let a post determine your relationship or put a cheating title on him. Don’t get so wrapped up in social media and make it play a role in your relationship! I hope this helps

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A huge part of being in a successful relationship is being able to sit down and talk about feelings without either person getting mad. It’s important that you both understand each other’s feelings so you can work together to both be as happy as possible. 
My husband always believed that he would never get married and date all his life but we met when he was 28 and he was ready to stop playing around and to settle. We got married last year in August , I was 26 and he was 32 and we just bought a house together 2 weeks ago and are expecting a baby in September. I’ve been wanting a baby and that mommy daddy family like the one I had growing up but i had to talk to him a lot and make it be known that that’s what I want in life. 
When I was 19-20 I dated a guy for like 3 years since high school and I told him I wanted to get married and have kids and he didn’t want that. So I made the decision to end the relationship because I knew I would never be happy if I didn’t reach these goals. And I’m glad I did. I’m not saying to end your relationship but I am saying that you guys need to talk about where you see yourselves in the next 5 years and next 10. If your expectations don’t line up, it may not work out.

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IMO you shouldn't base your relationship success on social media. Some people just....don't post! and thats fine.

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thank you lady's for all the comments. it most likely is just all in my head and I gotta figure out how to get over it. we do talk, and he does know I want to get married. he had planned to ask me in 2016 when I graduated with a diploma from a night school credit program. a tonnnn of work and struggles went on to make sure I got my shit done. ended up top 5 in my graduating class and got high honors and also got a check fron the bank for it. i was so shocked..... and the fact he had talked about it killed me when he didn't pop the question.... it would have been perfect. but.... shit happens. lol. and we did talk about the fact i was upset he said he regretted it and that it would have been perfect. which made me feel bad for even feeling bad in the first place. Im sure there were reasons. timing and still being in his parents house. maybe now that it's been a year in our own place things will start to happen !! all I can do is talk to him and see where things go.

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