How did it start off with you guys.. My 1st arguement w/ my bf I was going off on him (I have anger issues) I didnt hit him or anything I was so mad tho. I didnt want him to touch me but he kept forcing me to grab his hand or to hug him. He slapped me trying to calm me down but it made things worse. Our second arguement we were walking in public and i didnt want to and he forced me too by hurting my hand. We were holding hands and i said something that made him mad and he slammed my head inside the car. Idk how domestic violence starts off..