I love my future mil but....

Update/edit.... #2

I love my future mother in law, truly I do. But I swear to god, every time she says one thing to my fiancé about how to raise our child, he comes to me telling me what I’m doing is wrong and stupid and I should do what his mother said. I literally want to go slap this woman right now, and my fiancé. DONT FUCKING TELL ME HOW TO RAISE MY CHILD!!!! Just because something you did 25 years ago is what you did and what worked for you, doesn’t mean that what I’m doing now is wrong.

My baby is nearly 7 weeks old. I’ve been EBF. We just slowly started introducing a pumped bottle to her (once a day) because I don’t want to wait until it becomes even harder to introduce a bottle. And god forbid I want to/need to leave my child for more than an hour and don’t want her starving. So I’d like to have the bottle established now and make it easier so when the time does come, it’s not a bigger ordeal.

She went and told him that she solely breastfed until he was 6 months old and that 7 wwwks is way too early to have a bottle and yada yada yada. Fine, fuck having a date night ever. Fuck me ever leaving her with anyone for more than an hour.

Go fuck yourself.

Edit: the “go fuck yourself” part is towards my fiancé. I am quite pissed off that he doesn’t have my back. I’m pissed off that he listens to other people over the mother of his child (who is only doing what she feels is right and what she wants to do). I’m

Pissed odd that he won’t stand up and say “well that’s great but we’re going to do it this way”.... no he comes at me and tells me I’m doing it wrong and we shouldn’t do this because that’s what his mom said. I just don’t understand why he’d listen to someone who hasn’t dealt with a newborn for 25 years over someone who is raising a newborn now (who has been a nanny and dealt with newborns for the past 5 years), and who has done more research than she can count for the sack of her daughter.

***Update 2.

He came to his senses on his own this morning. Apologized for saying all of that and for not supporting what I want to do. And said he supports me still wanting to introduce a bottle so that we can have date nights in the future or so I can leave our daughter with him for more than an hour. Once he said this to me I was so happy (because let’s be real, I had a whole speech written in my mind ha!). And I even told him that when she was born we had trouble breasyfeeding at first because it was foreign to her and she had to learn and I said this is the same thing, it’s foreign but it’s going to take her longer to learn because we are only doing it once a day. It’s a learning process on all ends.

Okay that’s all!