Baby #3. HELP! Trying not to panic.

Okay momma's, I have a question. My first child, I had a c-section. They caught early on that he had gastroschisis. My 2nd child, I had VBAC. Everything went just fine. Tore in a couple spots, had some bleeding and was anemic for a very short time. Now, with my 3rd, everything is going absolutely wonderful, but the doctor I go to only does c-sections and the hospital I'm supposed to deliver at does not do VBAC's. Would my 3rd really be considered a VBAC since I've had one already? I will be 34 weeks Sunday. I had a little hospital stay as little man is getting impatient. I'm really having regrets as to me only having the choice of c-section. My boyfriend didn't get that experience with his little girl as she got stuck in the birth canal with the cord wrapped around her neck and they had to do an emergency cesarean. He didn't get to cut the cord either. I really want to have the chance of trying to have him naturally if I can. But I'm stuck. I have a doctor appointment with my OB on the 21st. I'll be 35 weeks +4. Should I talk to her about it and see if I can go to someone else so late or just stick it out? I just don't want to regret it later. 😩😞