Not sure what to do...

I’m due tomorrow. I have zero signs of this baby coming. She’s my second. My first I was a week over due. We are looking at inducing around the 19th, if she’s not here by then. My dr induces around 10 days after due date. My SIL is having her 2 kids birthday parties June 24 (turning 3 & 5). I told husband if I’m induced the 19th, me and Scarlett won’t be there but you can take Olivia. Even if I have her tomorrow, I really don’t want to take her..he then goes on to say how she’s our second, things are different. Everything will be fine and if you have her on the 19th/20th, you’ll be out of the hospital in time. I told him yes..but I’ll be recovering and bleeding..the last thing I want to do is be at a birthday party surrounded by screaming children right after giving birth.

Am I over reacting?? She will be anywhere from a few days to a week old..