We’re both in our mid-30s and TTC 9 months with zero success.

Going for my day 21 blood test on Thursday and waiting for appointment for an ultrasound to check me over... hubby seems to be putting off doing his test - the dates he mentioned going were during my fertile window and we’ll be abroad during AF this cycle and probably next cycle too. Had he gone the day he’d got the pot after seeing the GP it would have been best... I think he’s putting it off in case he finds out it’s his boys not performing.

I’m terrified to find out - I had a surgical termination 15 years ago and am scared that something happened that means it’s me.