Starting to get attached to him
So I’ve been seeing this guy since end of May and I’m not exactly sure what he’s expecting from me - relationship, sex friend, exclusive whatever - every time we hangout he acts like were in a relationship like he always grabs my hand and lock hands with me, he always kisses me whether we’re alone or in public (even on the forehead) and he always tells me “do you know you’re so cute?” with that little smile with it. And yeah. we met on tinder and I hung out with him friday evening and had sex with him for the very first time. And he asked me if I’d been seeing other dudes from tinder ever since we started hanging out and im like no have you? Hes like no. So idk if he’s sending me mixed signals because he’s very touchy touchy and physically expressive and everything and I’m not very very touchy and he kind of indirectly told me he wasn’t necessarily looking for a relationship at the moment (but yet still acts like we’re dating when we’re together). He’s 22 and I’m 20 and everything he does just kind of make me get more and more attached to him and it sucks so bad because it just feels like he doesn’t feel the same way that I do about us. Like I’m too afraid and timid to ask him what I am to him or what he’s expecting from all this, like I’m afraid that I’ll make things awkward between us if it turns out he’s not attached to me the way I am to him and not hanging out or talking to him is the last thing I want to happen.. like I try not to think about it too much but it hurts me every time I think of all the moments we spend together and how he acts around me and I can’t help asking myself if he really just wants to get this pussy or if he actually is geniunely into me😪 I don’t want to force things with him I mean if he ever wanted to be my sex friend i dont know what I would say because I would jsut end up catching feelings for him and I don’t want that to happen if he doesn’t feel the same way. I need help i dont know how to handle this whole situation and my feelings😥
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