So about 3 months ago I started talking to this guy, he’s a really great guy. He initiated talking to me and we talk all day everyday. Last night he asked me what I wanted was I just trying to have sex with him or did I want a relationship. Something I’ve been too scared to ask him over the last couple of weeks. He basically told me he has no intentions of making me his girlfriend atleast not anytime soon. But he likes me and doesn’t want to lose me, he also told me he wants to have sex but doesn’t want to feel like he’s using me because he doesn’t want to make me his girlfriend rn and feels that sex would ruin our relationship. He just continued to explain about this girl that he was heartbroken over and how he wasn’t ready to be with anyone else atleast not right now. I just can’t help but feel it’s me. I didn’t even realize I was starting to have feelings until he said this and it kinda hurt. I just need advice on what I should do. I don’t want to lose him but idk if I can just be friends with these feelings I have.