Still hopeful

Ch

So my husband and I have been trying to conceive for over a year. We have one 4 yr old daughter and had a blighted ovum 1 year ago. Last week we decided it’s time to get help since we are 37 years old now. I got my blood work done last week and my husband goes for sperm analysis on June 18th. I’m really hopeful we are going to find out we were successful on our own this cycle. Maybe just knowing we are going to get help made us relax enough to let it happen! My dr has said if my husbands analysis comes back good we will start trying with clomid first. Any stories of success when you sought help but did it on your own before treatment started?