his D*ck is too big

i just met this guy two months ago and we're getting to the point where we both want to have sex... yesterday we both decided to just go for it. he came over to my place with wine, chocolate , flowers, and some lovely smelling candles

i was so excited.. then he sat down kind of nervous I asked him what was wrong because i had never seem him that nervous before.

he looks at me with a serious face and tells me he is nervous because his dick is big And doesn't want to hurt me...i think he's joking and laugh it off

so we start making out and touching on each other to get in that mood as i reach lower i feel something hard and HUGE! i unzip his pants to see what i was feeling and a giant 10 inch dick pops out at me not only is it long it's as thick as a soda can

I'm shocked...i couldn't believe my eyes..theni started feeling bad because i could see he was hurt by my shocked reaction so i tried to play it off like it was no big deal but i was terrified at this point. I mean i could barely wrap my hand around this monster.

so we get to the point where it's time for the big show..he tried to put it in but it didn't fit and it hurt like hell i mean the pain was terrible he stopped because he could see that it was hurting me.

we ended up just finishing by giving giving each other amazing head but i still feel bad that i wasn't able to take his dick.

has this happed to any of you ladies? if so how did you eventually get to have sex? and is there a way to make him fit for next time?

he's a great guy and i really see myself with him so i want to be able to have painless sex with him like ASAP lol