I’m 8 weeks pregnant with my second pregnancy. My first ended in a miscarriage in March at only 7 weeks. My husband and I are so happy to be pregnant again but we are waiting to tell ANYONE until 12weeks. We made the mistake of telling the world way too soon last time. Well now that we are pregnant and just waiting to spill the news 6 other women in our family have announced they are pregnant all super early in pregnancies all due in January 2019 just like I am.

This has absolutely killed my baby buzz because now when we finally announce it I feel like everyone is just going to be like “join the club” or they won’t take us seriously because it’s like we are crying wolf. When in reality we will be in the second trimester and hopefully out of the danger zone.

Am I being irrational? My husband was so offended when I told him how I felt. He is the most caring man ever but he is seriously upset with me for even thinking like this. I have tried to get over it. Deep down I feel like I’m being a jealous bitch but I can’t shake this feeling of being bummed and I don’t even want to make an announcement now.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m so excited to be having a baby and in my own household I’m so happy but I’m not excited about telling the rest of the family now.