I really don’t like my boyfriends family at all. But I have a child with him. I’m wondering what can I do to set boundaries. And Also I felt very uncomfortable in the delivery room cause at first I wanted his mom to be there but I didn’t want her to see my vagina and breast while giving birth which made me feel very uncomfortable. And than she was trying to tell me what to do with my baby when I wanted to walk with my baby say “ car seat. “ when she could have said “ it safer for the baby to be in the car seat. “ it’s ways to word things & I didn’t like how it was worded. And my boyfriend was tell to put her but she had to put her two cent in and say something I don’t want them in my relationship with him at all. And regardless my baby was going to go to the car seat. In the car. I just wanted to spend time with my baby when I had just gave birth few days and my boyfriends mom sister and dad was all touch my child. I feel like my part as a mom isn’t important and I want to set polite and respectful boundaries. As a mom

So I feel important. Any suggestions ?

Also during my pregnancy his dad kicked me and his son out because his son lefted the door to there house open and it was 12am in the morning I was so upset my feet was so swollen and I was extra tired. His dad said sorry but Now I have the baby they want to see her etc like srs.