Help 😞

I found out my husband has Tinder downloaded on his phone. He was asleep when I confronted him and his excuse was “all my friends are on it”. What would you do in this situation if it was you?

In the past (8 months ago and for a long time) he was consistently talking to women behind my back, and face timing them.

He told an ex he wanted to have sex with her but “I’m married”.

He’s also an alcoholic and I’ve been trying for 3 years to help him.

I talked to a lawyer a few days ago, but I’m afraid to pull the trigger.

I guess I’m looking for some “you don’t need this..” etc etc, but I’m 14 weeks pregnant and we have a toddler. I’m afraid they won’t have a father 😢