Whats the deal?

My boyfriend is obsessed with weed.

Like I smoke too but only now and then with him. For me its just nice to do to relax and chill and have a laugh with him.

But for him he smokes every night by himself and smoking doesn’t actually make him happy or giggly like it can for me.

But he ran out a few weeks ago and gets SO stressed about it! He mentions every single day that he wants some. Last night he tried a dealers number off a friend but they just said wrong number and hung up. Well he just didn’t talk to me at all despite having just got back from a trip I wanted to hear about. I just went to bed and left him to it.

But I just don’t get what the huge deal is? Like is it just addiction? Because it honestly seems like he can’t live without it and its all he cares or thinks about.

Also he says he struggles to make friends and nobody likes him but from what I see they do. I just think because all he talks and cares about is weed nobody else really cares as much. So he can’t seem to connect with anyone. Most like me just smoke now and then.