Why can’t my husband take shit seriously?? 🤬🤬🤬

Long story short, we were told reproductive assistance has to be put on hold until he was tobacco free 100% for 3 months. We were told this back in March... here it is mid-June and he’s still smoking. Yes I’ve asked him to quit, yes I’ve expressed how much it bothers me. I’m seriously about to give up on all of this. If he can’t quit smoking, how does he expect me to go through y’all this shit to have a baby with him!?