Would like everyone’s advice??

Katrina

So few days ago had a massive argument with family members for going through my phone and screenshots get my conversations with ex, things turned bad and now we’re not on speaking terms but they blame me saying I shouldn’t be talking to him and I only did once our son was born to ask him if he wanted something to do with our son but he said he didn’t now there running me down saying I’m a slut and that I used them and that I shouldn’t be talking to ex! And I’m just not sure on how to react back to them I just walked away and have been avoiding them but do you think I was in the wrong or them?? Because I’m sick of them going through my shit when I don’t do it to them and then when I change my lock on my phone give me shit that I’m hiding something? So fucking confused 🤷‍♀️ some one help me