So my MIL always ask me why I don’t go over with my 1 year old son that much and I’ve been keeping this in since day one.

🖍First of all, her house just smells like garbage and since I’m 15 weeks pregnant, I would constantly gag whenever we both go over and when my SO ask me what’s wrong I would just be like it’s nothing. She has 6 people living in the house right now and it’s constantly cluttered.

🖍Second of all every since I had my son she would always manipulate me as of telling me what to do and what to do not do. And when I gave birth, I was on a soup and oatmeal diet for those 5 days when over I stayed there. I couldn’t even have an ice cold water or ice cream and c’mon i had my son during summer and it was like 100 degrees outside. She even told me I had be clothed from head to toe because I could possibly die or I would be severely sick. Well here I am healthy as can be and pregnant with our second child. By the way, I was suppose to be there to L. E.A.R.N how to do things as a Mom from her. But nope, all she did was pretty much take over my role as a mother and treated my son like it’s her own son. She even told me to pump for her and I didn’t even got a chance to breastfeed my son. I barely got to bond with my son during the stay at her house. I was just depressed and I felt lost. But when I told her that I’m not going to be staying here anymore, she just got upset.

But anyways, I just wanted to vent and I told my Mother this and she was like who cares if her house smells and blahblahblah.