First background I am Jasmine and my fiance's name is Chris. Chris has shown me may times that he lies to me and everyone else. I own my own home, but cannot afford the payments without him because I am currently in college with just a few semesters left. Because of where my house is I cannot have roommates. So, all of this started 2 years ago when my fiance's best friend committed suicide. They had been friends for years and he was devastated. My fiance never grieved his loss and just continued to be a depressed mess, which caused him to neglect me and our relationship. I accepted that it was going to take time for him to grieve, but I couldn't wait any longer it had already been 2 years and there had been no progress. This past August we took a break for 2 months because he said that he couldn't work on himself if he was worrying about me. Rather than fighting this I decided to go with it to see if it would help. We got back together and nothing changed. We took another break in March for another 3 months. This time it was because I didn't know if I wanted kids or not. I decided that I did, bit it only took me s week to make this decision and he thought that that was too fast, so he said he wanted to take some more time to make sure that I didn't change my mind. I said this to him twice with the same response the third time that I said this he told me that he was still thinking about things, which made no sense to me because we took the break in the first place because I didn't know if I wanted kids or not. I finally said that I had had enough of being ignored and neglected and that I was done. The night that I told him this he came to me and said that he would do anything to make this work. I accepted this offer with condition that he would have to work on not putting me and our relationship on the back burner. I am not sure if it is going to stick because it already feels like its fading. Does anyone have any advice.