UPDATE: so after reading i should still get a plan B I went out and got one.

he txted and called me this morning i haven't found out what to say to him I'm really scared he's going to show up at my job and somehow he knew when i got home from work which really freaked me out. I'm building up the courage to report him

UPDATE#2

I've never been in a situation like this before. I have been ignoring him since the incident and that seems to have made him angrier. should i Talk to him at least so he doesn't show up?

UPDATE #3

I'm ashamed and really embarrassed that this is happening to me honestly. I've never been this terrified in my life. I told my friend i was spending the night at her house after he sent me those text but I haven't told her whats happened yet. I have screenshots of all his messages for when I'm strong enough to make a report.

UPDATE 4:

so i finally broke down and told my best friend. I literally couldn't stop crying. but i feel a little better now. she called and told her older brother everything who works on the same base as him and also hooked us up. I hope this whole nightmare ends soon. thank you guys for helping me. I'm still a little reluctant to come forward because i think he might retaliate.

UPDATE 5:

I want to thank all of you for your support. i woke up this morning and instead of being scared i was angry. my best friends brother also roughed him up which actually made me smile. i have to go home after work today but my best friends brother will be spending the night to make sure he doesn't show up. i will also be taking a pregnancy test in a few weeks so i will definitely update you guys on the outcome. I'm so glad i posted here even if it was anonymous because you ladies really gave me courage to tell my friend. I appreciate all of you💕

UPDATE 6:

I'm happy to tell everyone I got a TRO a few days ago.

and for those asking no this wasn't a D/s relationship he was completely normal until this incident. my period is due in 5 days so i will be updating with a pregnancy test soon. I'm so thankful for all the love and support i received and the encouragement to come forward. although i haven't gone to his command yet I'm hoping this restraining order will keep him away from me

so I've been seeing this guy in the military he's cute and kind and Really sweet....

BUT lately he's been talking about having kids. he's 29 and I'm 25. I've told him that I'm not ready for kids yet and we've only been dating for 6 months.

he's been trying to have sex without a condom but i always say no because I'm not on birth control.. so last week I really stressed to him that it's either no sex or condom sex because I'm in my fertile week. he agreed to using a condom..which i thought was strange because usually he puts up more of an argument.

yesterday he came over to my place straight after work still in his uniform which was odd because he usually changed after work.

i let him in and he immediately started kissing me and touching me and i could tell he was hard already. so i tell him to put a condom on so we can have a quickie and relax the rest of the night

i reach to give him the condoms i had in my dresser but he stopped me and said he bought his own....another odd thing.

so anyway he gets the condom on and we have sex but instead of pulling out he stays in and holds me down super tight and keeps me like that even after i asked him to get off me.. finally after 5 minutes of this he gets off and pulls out and just says sorry...im confused at first then i feel wetness down there and look it's his cum leaking out of me! i freak out because I'm ovulating that day at first i thought the condom ripped but after he left because i told him to leave i looked at the wrapper of the condom he insisted on using and it had three small holes in it.

he's already admitted to me that he poked the holes in it. and when i asked him why he said he thought I'd be a great mother and wife for him....like i never realized how crazy this man was. he's been calling me non stop and showed up to my place a few times banging on the door for me to let him in.

im scared that i might get pregnant from this . i couldn't use plan B because it doesn't work if you've already ovulated so im stuck in thiswaiting game.

I'm also scared to tell anyone because he's been acting really out of control.

any suggestions ladies..sorry this was so long