Finally got some!

So I'm still relatively new to the whole BDSM world, it took me wayyy too long in life to realize how kinky I am. I've been with my man for a while and he is about as vanilla as it gets. Very little imagination. Or so I thought. I've kinda been sliding hints that I might be interested in exploring some kinky things for a while and last night we finally made it happen!!!

I decided to start us off easy before diving too far in because like I said I am new, and he is new, and things can just go so wrong so fast. He has lightly tapped/spanked me during sex on his own in the past so that's where I decided to start.

So we're watching Hells Kitchen. And I'm wearing what's typical for me when it's just the two of us (undies and a t shirt) and I've been like tapping my butt trying to draw attention to it. He looks over "Having fun there?" Me - "Not really, a girl should never have to play with her own butt." So he starts rubbing it absentmindedly. I tell him to sit more in the middle bof the couch and I lay across him on my stomach with my butt in his lap. He asks my why and I tell him I like when he plays with my butt. I said I thought bit would be really sexy if we just casually watched TV and he did whatever floats his boat down there including spanking.

The look he gives me is kinda funny but we start watching TV again. He starts experimentally tapping my butt. I want to encourage him a little so I let out a soft sigh or moan ever so often. He gets a little harder and asks if it was too much. I told him to go as hard as he wanted as long as he was into it and I would tell him if it was too hard. That's when I felt it. And by it I mean IT. Underneath me getting hard.

Next thing I know he's alternating between grabbing and rubbing my butt, fingering me, and spanking me so hard I'm gasping for air!!! I knew I was excited by the idea but I did not realize exactly how awesome it would be to be spanked so hard I had to grab onto something. My is still red. At one point I started screaming it was so good.

He kinda paused to ask if I was ok and I said yes, and he took the opportunity to ask when the sex part happens/how I want it to happen. So I told him to keep doing what he was doing until he was about to have blue balls and then just flip me over and take me no questions asked. At this point we're both pantless. So he spanks me for like another 5 minutes. The transition to sex want quite as smooth as I would've asked for because he gently nudged me and had me stand up and lay down on my back. Then once sex started it was kinda vanilla and quick. He kissed me a lot and I bit his shoulder.

I asked him after how into it he had been and he said he mostly got turned on because he knew he was turning me on so much. And even though it didn't go quite as "smoothly" or "perfectly" as I had fantasized it was still everything I could have asked for ❤️❤️❤️