Pubic hair removal

I have a lot of pubic hair, but whenever I try and remove my pubic hair (waxing, shaving, sugaring, whatever), I get these masses of ingrown hairs (I’m talking like every other hair becomes ingrown). This happens even when I get it professionally done. This is just the upper flesh above the actual vagina I’m talking about- I’m terrified of actually doing anything down there what with the reaction I’m getting now. Have any of you ladies experienced this? What should I do?