Joining military?

Sooo. Backstory. My fiancé & I have been together for two and a half years. We have an almost ten month old. He’s talked about the military since we’ve been together but always decided against it. He works a shit job & we struggle so bad because there are no opportunity’s here.we recently started talking about it but we aren’t sure what to do. I’m a family girl. I mean it. I spend the night at my parents house once a week and I’m 20. I love my family. But I don’t know if I could move away. That’s what is stopping us. I would love some advice from military spouses💖