What should I do?

So, this is my second time trying to talk to a D. First one was a jerk and I wasn’t ready, and he didn’t want a relationship and I did...yeah.

I am now talking (well, he calls it vetting) to a guy who has been wonderful to me and we seem to be compatible in many ways. We’ve been talking for months. We are LD, but we’ve had sessions on the phone which have been great. I have emotional feelings for him.

But...there’s two things. One, I don’t feel much physical chemistry. He’s good looking, but I’m not wowed. Two, our life goals are very different and he’s poly and while I love the idea I don’t have experience.

But, I don’t love yet but I love his company and the way he makes me feel and our sessions and how he sees me as a whole person and how honest he is. I just have forebodings that this isn’t meant to be long term.

Should I break it off? Or keep going even though I think we will both be heartbroken in the end (he has strong feelings for me)? We are both all about commitment, so my logic thinks I should ask for just friends, but my heart wants to risk it.